by The Augustan on 10/13/2014
Men enjoy sex. I imagine that few people would disagree with that statement. There is nothing wrong with men enjoying sex. It is fun. Nevertheless, an unexpected pregnancy that occurs as a result of a causal sexual encounter can have very serious consequences.
Namely, a child growing up in a fatherless home.
There is a striking correlation between social problems and fatherless homes in America. The National Center for Fathering describes it this way:
“…children from fatherless homes are more likely to be poor, become involved in drug and alcohol abuse, drop out of school, and suffer from health and emotional problems. Boys are more likely to become involved in crime, and girls are more likely to become pregnant as teens.”
Could there also be a broader connection between fatherless homes and men’s sexual attitudes and behavior? Probably. I suspect that many men do not take sex seriously, and a few moments of thoughtless pleasure can profoundly alter the course of a person’s life.
Men are at a greater risk of having multiple children outside of their households because they can potentially impregnate a large number of women, whereas women can only become pregnant once within a nine month period. Men must begin thinking deeply about the personal and societal costs of promiscuity, and stop perpetuating the idea that sex is just a leisurely, insignificant activity because it is far from one.
by The Augustan on 09/29/2014
Last week, I viewed a video from a South Carolina state trooper’s dashboard camera that I found deeply troubling (watch it here).
In the video Sean Groubert, a 31-year-old trooper, shot 35-year-old Levar Jones during a traffic stop for a seatbelt offense. One of the most disturbing aspects of the video was that the last of four rounds fired at Levar Jones was while his hands were visibly raised.
Levar Jones was unarmed.
Admittedly, Mr. Jones did reach into his vehicle after being instructed to produce his license. One might argue that was Mr. Jones’ mistake, but does a person reaching into their vehicle after being asked to present their license undoubtedly mean that they are preparing for a gunfight?
I often leave my wallet in the cup holder of my car after purchasing food at a drive thru. Faced with the same situation, I would have made the same motion as Mr. Jones.
That is what scares me.
While I recognize that many police officers have lost their lives during traffic stops, to what degree are individual citizens held accountable for a police officer’s past experiences? Is it fair, or rational, for a citizen to be treated with hostility because of the behavior of others? South Carolina Department of Public Safety Director, Leroy Smith, arrived at the following conclusion:
“…Mr. Groubert reacted to a perceived threat where there was none.”
Certainly it is worth exploring exactly what law enforcement officers perceive as threatening.
by The Augustan on 09/22/2014
Have you ever listened to someone share their opinion on an extremely controversial topic and had a nagging suspicion that they were not being completely forthright? Perhaps you had a feeling that they had a motive they were unable or unwilling to communicate?
Frankly, there are times when I am not completely forthright about the reasons behind my actions.
It is nearly impossible to prove whether or not someone is being truthful about their motives; however, I suspect that many people routinely conceal them. Freedom, patriotism, and religious doctrine are ideas that can easily be manipulated to disguise less virtuous motivations such as hatred and intolerance.
When asked directly, some may offer logical explanations for their views that, while plausible, somehow seem insufficient.
It points to something beneath the surface.
How often are people straightforward about exactly what is driving them? I cannot say for certain, but I have a hunch that the issues that people are most passionate about, and consequently fuel the longest-lasting debates, have far less to do with the issue itself and more to do with the motives that people seldom confess.